good question
i don't think i've ever been much of a nagger, probably because i have a fear of losing what i have. and so I'm afraid to disagree or challenge those i have relationships with...and of course i do NOT enjoy confrontation. but i think i'm usually making a mistake when i don't address things that bother me. we're all so DEFENSIVE, you know? the other person is defensive when i say something, i'm defensive when i'm challenged, and at the same time, when something is finally addressed, we might find ourselves saying, "why didn't you say something sooner?"
i believe strongly in compromise, but somehow haven't managed much success with it in any relationship. so, maybe i don't believe in it that much? am I willing to compromise, or do i just expect others to? i thought i was starting to figure some of these things out in my last romance, but it's hard to believe anything was figured out when something fails.
my conclusion? i'm not the guy with the answers.
i believe strongly in compromise, but somehow haven't managed much success with it in any relationship. so, maybe i don't believe in it that much? am I willing to compromise, or do i just expect others to? i thought i was starting to figure some of these things out in my last romance, but it's hard to believe anything was figured out when something fails.
my conclusion? i'm not the guy with the answers.
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